Thought:
Sister, YOU, yes you, the one turning around and grinning cause you got cat-call "MA" by some man on a corner. I did not know your mother or father or family name you "Ma", "Hey you", "Shorty" , or anything other than your [insert name here].
You gotta ask yourself what made you turn around in the first place was it:
1. Boredom?
2. You just wanted to see
3. You actually like the fact that this man whom you don't know got your attention with a slur and a cat call?
4. Keep in mind he call "Your cat" he still ain't called you?
Sistah's you want better step your game up! Step you life up...you can not say you want caviar and you got a McDonald's dollar menu set of morals and values. It is true no one has time for that type of confusion. Let me help you out a bit:
0. Be clear about what you want before you go after ANYTHING
1. if you are looking for HUSBAND you shouldn't be dressed like a whore. If you gotta ask someone "is this too...[insert your statement here] then yes it is. If you are selling yourself on the street with what you wear then you will get what you attract. And I am not saying be a prude like myself but there is a way to dress that appeals to the eye and CATCHES the eye.... I say look to your AFRICAN SISTAH's re: Style and Fashion (ghana, Mali, Sengal, Soweto...goodsearch.com, google it)
2. Be about something...cause your pretty face gon' slide down ya face if you don't keep yourself abreast and together. GO TO SLEEP why you out ever night until 5am, why?
3. Stop SLEEPING WITH EVERYMAN THAT COMES ALONG: Quality for quantity.
4. Paying for dinner does not in NO WAY SHAPE OF FORM mean you are REQUIRD to give up the ass, if he likes you the sex should not be a problem at all.... ..if u choose to sleep with a man he should GRATEFUL and please believe if you are not in a relationship with this man and you are both not getting tested just know he is sleeping with, smashing, banging it out, with another chick, USE A DAMN CONDOM....
5. Stop complaining, If your friend, lover, man, woman is not engaging you then don't complain make yourself unavailable, and make yourself available for those who are prioritizing, you and your relationship. Find what makes you happy cause please believe I have been on both sides of the fence and NO OTHER HUMAN CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY BUT YOU!!!!
5.5 If you meet a man you like you must ask him question about himself at some point in your interactions:
-Are you currently in a relationship?
-Does someone one think you are in a relationship with them?
-Do you have children? How old are they? How is the relationship with their mothers... **** If he says Baby Momma, then you need to stop the conversation there, because he is looking to make a BABY MOMMA not a WIFE or a Mother
-Are you homosexual?
-Do you have any homosexual tendencies? <-- are="" bi-men="" bi="" br="" for="" heterosexual="" is="" judgements="" like="" list="" my="" no="" on="" only="" out="" some="" that="" there="" this="" women="">-Are you telling someone they are in a relationship with you?
6. COURTSHIP: If you like him DATE HIM, do not sleep with him, do not let him touch you, keep some mystery to what you have under your cloth, not everyone is supposed to see you, now if you just want him to be your JUMP OFF, LET HIM KNOW THAT [we are grown women after all] speak YOUR truth from the beginning. DO NOT CREATE UNDUE STRESS ON THAT MAN FOR NO REASON AND TAINT HIS CONCEPT OF WHAT A GODO WOMAN LOOKS LIKE....Do not discuss sex with him in the beginning it is not fair conversation esp since you are not touching him for at list 90 days yes 90 days. That is if you are serious about him and he is serious about you.....
7. If you see him one or two days out of a 30 days time frame HE IS NOT YOUR MAN, he is your MISTA....
...and some of you out there this is for you: If you think that man is your man but you have never met his friends, or seen his toilet you have no position period. Stay in your lane, if you find out that this man whom you like is in a LTR, IT IS UP TO YOU TO LEAVE THE SITUATION AS WELL do not go looking for his chick and starting problems. GET YA LIFE.
FFT
#Manhood
#getyalife
#Randomness
#Bus-conversation
Sister, YOU, yes you, the one turning around and grinning cause you got cat-call "MA" by some man on a corner. I did not know your mother or father or family name you "Ma", "Hey you", "Shorty" , or anything other than your [insert name here].
You gotta ask yourself what made you turn around in the first place was it:
1. Boredom?
2. You just wanted to see
3. You actually like the fact that this man whom you don't know got your attention with a slur and a cat call?
4. Keep in mind he call "Your cat" he still ain't called you?
Sistah's you want better step your game up! Step you life up...you can not say you want caviar and you got a McDonald's dollar menu set of morals and values. It is true no one has time for that type of confusion. Let me help you out a bit:
0. Be clear about what you want before you go after ANYTHING
1. if you are looking for HUSBAND you shouldn't be dressed like a whore. If you gotta ask someone "is this too...[insert your statement here] then yes it is. If you are selling yourself on the street with what you wear then you will get what you attract. And I am not saying be a prude like myself but there is a way to dress that appeals to the eye and CATCHES the eye.... I say look to your AFRICAN SISTAH's re: Style and Fashion (ghana, Mali, Sengal, Soweto...goodsearch.com, google it)
2. Be about something...cause your pretty face gon' slide down ya face if you don't keep yourself abreast and together. GO TO SLEEP why you out ever night until 5am, why?
3. Stop SLEEPING WITH EVERYMAN THAT COMES ALONG: Quality for quantity.
4. Paying for dinner does not in NO WAY SHAPE OF FORM mean you are REQUIRD to give up the ass, if he likes you the sex should not be a problem at all.... ..if u choose to sleep with a man he should GRATEFUL and please believe if you are not in a relationship with this man and you are both not getting tested just know he is sleeping with, smashing, banging it out, with another chick, USE A DAMN CONDOM....
5. Stop complaining, If your friend, lover, man, woman is not engaging you then don't complain make yourself unavailable, and make yourself available for those who are prioritizing, you and your relationship. Find what makes you happy cause please believe I have been on both sides of the fence and NO OTHER HUMAN CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY BUT YOU!!!!
5.5 If you meet a man you like you must ask him question about himself at some point in your interactions:
-Are you currently in a relationship?
-Does someone one think you are in a relationship with them?
-Do you have children? How old are they? How is the relationship with their mothers... **** If he says Baby Momma, then you need to stop the conversation there, because he is looking to make a BABY MOMMA not a WIFE or a Mother
-Are you homosexual?
-Do you have any homosexual tendencies? <-- are="" bi-men="" bi="" br="" for="" heterosexual="" is="" judgements="" like="" list="" my="" no="" on="" only="" out="" some="" that="" there="" this="" women="">-Are you telling someone they are in a relationship with you?
6. COURTSHIP: If you like him DATE HIM, do not sleep with him, do not let him touch you, keep some mystery to what you have under your cloth, not everyone is supposed to see you, now if you just want him to be your JUMP OFF, LET HIM KNOW THAT [we are grown women after all] speak YOUR truth from the beginning. DO NOT CREATE UNDUE STRESS ON THAT MAN FOR NO REASON AND TAINT HIS CONCEPT OF WHAT A GODO WOMAN LOOKS LIKE....Do not discuss sex with him in the beginning it is not fair conversation esp since you are not touching him for at list 90 days yes 90 days. That is if you are serious about him and he is serious about you.....
7. If you see him one or two days out of a 30 days time frame HE IS NOT YOUR MAN, he is your MISTA....
...and some of you out there this is for you: If you think that man is your man but you have never met his friends, or seen his toilet you have no position period. Stay in your lane, if you find out that this man whom you like is in a LTR, IT IS UP TO YOU TO LEAVE THE SITUATION AS WELL do not go looking for his chick and starting problems. GET YA LIFE.
FFT
#Manhood
#getyalife
#Randomness
#Bus-conversation
Sister, YOU, yes you, the one turning around and grinning cause you got cat-call "MA" by some man on a corner. I did not know your mother or father or family name you "Ma", "Hey you", "Shorty" , or anything other than your [insert name here].
You gotta ask yourself what made you turn around in the first place was it:
1. Boredom?
2. You just wanted to see
3. You actually like the fact that this man whom you don't know got your attention with a slur and a cat call?
4. Keep in mind he call "Your cat" he still ain't called you?
Sistah's you want better step your game up! Step you life up...you can not say you want caviar and you got a McDonald's dollar menu set of morals and values. It is true no one has time for that type of confusion. Let me help you out a bit:
0. Be clear about what you want before you go after ANYTHING
1. if you are looking for HUSBAND you shouldn't be dressed like a whore. If you gotta ask someone "is this too...[insert your statement here] then yes it is. If you are selling yourself on the street with what you wear then you will get what you attract. And I am not saying be a prude like myself but there is a way to dress that appeals to the eye and CATCHES the eye.... I say look to your AFRICAN SISTAH's re: Style and Fashion (ghana, Mali, Sengal, Soweto...goodsearch.com, google it)
2. Be about something...cause your pretty face gon' slide down ya face if you don't keep yourself abreast and together. GO TO SLEEP why you out ever night until 5am, why?
3. Stop SLEEPING WITH EVERYMAN THAT COMES ALONG: Quality for quantity.
4. Paying for dinner does not in NO WAY SHAPE OF FORM mean you are REQUIRD to give up the ass, if he likes you the sex should not be a problem at all.... ..if u choose to sleep with a man he should GRATEFUL and please believe if you are not in a relationship with this man and you are both not getting tested just know he is sleeping with, smashing, banging it out, with another chick, USE A DAMN CONDOM....
5. Stop complaining, If your friend, lover, man, woman is not engaging you then don't complain make yourself unavailable, and make yourself available for those who are prioritizing, you and your relationship. Find what makes you happy cause please believe I have been on both sides of the fence and NO OTHER HUMAN CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY BUT YOU!!!!
5.5 If you meet a man you like you must ask him question about himself at some point in your interactions:
-Are you currently in a relationship?
-Does someone one think you are in a relationship with them?
-Do you have children? How old are they? How is the relationship with their mothers... **** If he says Baby Momma, then you need to stop the conversation there, because he is looking to make a BABY MOMMA not a WIFE or a Mother
-Are you homosexual?
-Do you have any homosexual tendencies? <-- are="" bi-men="" bi="" br="" for="" heterosexual="" is="" judgements="" like="" list="" my="" no="" on="" only="" out="" some="" that="" there="" this="" women="">-Are you telling someone they are in a relationship with you?
6. COURTSHIP: If you like him DATE HIM, do not sleep with him, do not let him touch you, keep some mystery to what you have under your cloth, not everyone is supposed to see you, now if you just want him to be your JUMP OFF, LET HIM KNOW THAT [we are grown women after all] speak YOUR truth from the beginning. DO NOT CREATE UNDUE STRESS ON THAT MAN FOR NO REASON AND TAINT HIS CONCEPT OF WHAT A GODO WOMAN LOOKS LIKE....Do not discuss sex with him in the beginning it is not fair conversation esp since you are not touching him for at list 90 days yes 90 days. That is if you are serious about him and he is serious about you.....
7. If you see him one or two days out of a 30 days time frame HE IS NOT YOUR MAN, he is your MISTA....
...and some of you out there this is for you: If you think that man is your man but you have never met his friends, or seen his toilet you have no position period. Stay in your lane, if you find out that this man whom you like is in a LTR, IT IS UP TO YOU TO LEAVE THE SITUATION AS WELL do not go looking for his chick and starting problems. GET YA LIFE.
FFT
#Manhood
#getyalife
#Randomness
#Bus-conversation
Sister, YOU, yes you, the one turning around and grinning cause you got cat-call "MA" by some man on a corner. I did not know your mother or father or family name you "Ma", "Hey you", "Shorty" , or anything other than your [insert name here].
You gotta ask yourself what made you turn around in the first place was it:
1. Boredom?
2. You just wanted to see
3. You actually like the fact that this man whom you don't know got your attention with a slur and a cat call?
4. Keep in mind he call "Your cat" he still ain't called you?
Sistah's you want better step your game up! Step you life up...you can not say you want caviar and you got a McDonald's dollar menu set of morals and values. It is true no one has time for that type of confusion. Let me help you out a bit:
0. Be clear about what you want before you go after ANYTHING
1. if you are looking for HUSBAND you shouldn't be dressed like a whore. If you gotta ask someone "is this too...[insert your statement here] then yes it is. If you are selling yourself on the street with what you wear then you will get what you attract. And I am not saying be a prude like myself but there is a way to dress that appeals to the eye and CATCHES the eye.... I say look to your AFRICAN SISTAH's re: Style and Fashion (ghana, Mali, Sengal, Soweto...goodsearch.com, google it)
2. Be about something...cause your pretty face gon' slide down ya face if you don't keep yourself abreast and together. GO TO SLEEP why you out ever night until 5am, why?
3. Stop SLEEPING WITH EVERYMAN THAT COMES ALONG: Quality for quantity.
4. Paying for dinner does not in NO WAY SHAPE OF FORM mean you are REQUIRD to give up the ass, if he likes you the sex should not be a problem at all.... ..if u choose to sleep with a man he should GRATEFUL and please believe if you are not in a relationship with this man and you are both not getting tested just know he is sleeping with, smashing, banging it out, with another chick, USE A DAMN CONDOM....
5. Stop complaining, If your friend, lover, man, woman is not engaging you then don't complain make yourself unavailable, and make yourself available for those who are prioritizing, you and your relationship. Find what makes you happy cause please believe I have been on both sides of the fence and NO OTHER HUMAN CAN MAKE YOU HAPPY BUT YOU!!!!
5.5 If you meet a man you like you must ask him question about himself at some point in your interactions:
-Are you currently in a relationship?
-Does someone one think you are in a relationship with them?
-Do you have children? How old are they? How is the relationship with their mothers... **** If he says Baby Momma, then you need to stop the conversation there, because he is looking to make a BABY MOMMA not a WIFE or a Mother
-Are you homosexual?
-Do you have any homosexual tendencies? <-- are="" bi-men="" bi="" br="" for="" heterosexual="" is="" judgements="" like="" list="" my="" no="" on="" only="" out="" some="" that="" there="" this="" women="">-Are you telling someone they are in a relationship with you?
6. COURTSHIP: If you like him DATE HIM, do not sleep with him, do not let him touch you, keep some mystery to what you have under your cloth, not everyone is supposed to see you, now if you just want him to be your JUMP OFF, LET HIM KNOW THAT [we are grown women after all] speak YOUR truth from the beginning. DO NOT CREATE UNDUE STRESS ON THAT MAN FOR NO REASON AND TAINT HIS CONCEPT OF WHAT A GODO WOMAN LOOKS LIKE....Do not discuss sex with him in the beginning it is not fair conversation esp since you are not touching him for at list 90 days yes 90 days. That is if you are serious about him and he is serious about you.....
7. If you see him one or two days out of a 30 days time frame HE IS NOT YOUR MAN, he is your MISTA....
...and some of you out there this is for you: If you think that man is your man but you have never met his friends, or seen his toilet you have no position period. Stay in your lane, if you find out that this man whom you like is in a LTR, IT IS UP TO YOU TO LEAVE THE SITUATION AS WELL do not go looking for his chick and starting problems. GET YA LIFE.
FFT
#Manhood
#getyalife
#Randomness
#Bus-conversation
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